According to
dictionary.com ‘considerations’ are
defined as thoughtful
or sympathetic regard or respect; a thoughtfulness for others. Do you
find yourself having days where you look around at the world and just scratch
your head; perhaps wonder where the common decency and respect for others has
gone? The past week was filled with ample opportunities to witness BOTH the good and the bad in people. We
had devastating flood waters in local areas that either weren’t accustomed to
or prepared for the amount of rain that they got. Many people lost power and/or
belongings. We saw reports on TV of people rummaging through other people’s water-sodden
personal belongings in front of houses, but we also saw people reaching out to
help their fellow neighbors.
This past
week I heard about people getting out of their cars and running to the aid of a
stranded driver on a busy road, yet I personally witnessed a bout of potential
road rage between the drivers of 2 large SUVs. I heard stories of
hope from some mission trip youth and I kept tabs on people who were walking 60 miles in hopes of helping to find a cure for breast cancer.
It’s easy to
get caught up in the little everyday scenarios where someone has inconvenienced
us, or been rude to us, or made us feel a little taken for granted. When that
happens I try to regroup. I try to shrug it off as someone being a little too
busy and or maybe just inconsiderate and hope that they weren’t intentional in their
actions. I try to look at the bigger picture and be thankful for all of the good that is around me.
At the end of the day I hope that there was a balance and assure myself that
tomorrow will be a new day.
The next
time someone assumes things on your behalf or someone cuts you off in traffic
try to stay in the moment … get through it with as few emotional scars as
possible and move on. The less baggage you carry with you into tomorrow the
better you will feel. Bottom line – we‘ll never be able to control the actions
of others so we need to worry less about what THEY should or should not have
done and instead focus more on what we CAN control … our own actions. Just
something to think about.
No comments:
Post a Comment